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writes:Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy.I like this girl who I I've known for a year but I never really connected with her before. Durring the 2009-2010 school year I had her in one of my study periods and we really connected. We both like the same music and people and we for the most part have the same friends. She is 16 with her license and I am 15 with my temps. She was going out with one of my friends whom I've known for a very long time, but he moved to germany at the end of the school year.Over the summer I texed her almost every other day and we had good conversations with each other, and she really seemed to like me, but then I noticed something, when we were at a football game, she was being all physical and flirty with my best friend. He was born on the same day as me within an hour at the same hospital here in columbus, but he is a very lazy "dude" kind of person. The only reason I don't say screw it she's into guys that are not well put together is because all of the people including the german kid were very nice and not weird. I guess what I'm asking for input on is, why if I like someone, and she seems to like me, turn around and hit on my loser friend? Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Thank you for your imput. I don't mean to be judgemental, and I don't show it. He's my friend but he's a extreamly fairweathered, he's nice when its convenient for him. I've been his friend since the begining, loser wasn't the right word, but in no way am I jealous of him.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (6 September 2010):
 maybe she notices how judgmental you are. You were likable until you slammed on your friend, real friends don't call their friends losers.
She might just be a flirty type of girl anyhow, the only way you'll find out if she likes you is if you tell her or ask her out.
But steer clear of getting jealous of your buddies, no one likes jealousy and calling your buddy a loser is not cool.
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