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I like her but I don't want to like her

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Question - (6 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi all, i'm close friends with this girl. We do talk alot and she trusts me so she opens up. We speak few hours on the phone each week or try to meet quickly for 20mins just to talk!

Anyway everytime i go near her or talk to her i've realised she's on my mind afterwards for hours.

She is not the prettiest girl, although she is single never thought of liking her. I talk about girls and she talks about guys so its normal friendship.

I hate this feeling of loss when she goes, i get really happy when we talk and love meetin her! Does it mean i like her? Why do i have these feelings?!

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A female reader, MissWright United Kingdom +, writes (10 September 2009):

These are the sorts of feelings that can be missleading

if you are certain you dont like her in "that Way" then you most probably dont, even though sometimes feelings can be hidden deep down..

You are probably just enjoying her company and when she leaves you , you just miss that company and having someone to talk to.

dont ruin the friendship by worrying about your feelings

she sounds like a lovely friend soo make sure you keep her

hope i helped x

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