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writes:Well, I really fancy this lad. I have been talking to him on msn for ages but the thing is he has just got a new girlfriend (he is my sister's best mate's cousin) and lately everything I tell him he sends my conversations to his girlfriend to read and she has added me on msn and she said to me "he's mine" and I feel such an idiot now and I don't now what to do.I really want to be with him--we used to have loads of good long conversations together but now she's come along she's spoiled everything me and him had. Can anyone give me any advice please on how to get him because I really can't let go of him, he means the world to me..x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): why would he forward it..if he actually liked u he would leave u to be wit her
and dont worry ur still a teen theres other dudes
in the sea.and if u wanted that one all u gotta do is just wait and wwatch them fall apart cuz not all relationships are still alive most of them fall apart
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): Life isn't like how you might see in soap operas. Even if you somehow managed to break the two apart, I don't think that he's suddenly going to look to you as a potential girlfriend, nor will the relationship be a healthy one (depending on the method you used to break them apart)
In this age, finding someone is not difficult. It's so easy to meet someone and you really should focus your attention on someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): Don't break them up, because that isn't right. If really liked you, he probably would have asked you out anyway. Besides, if it's REAL love, you want him to be happy, even if you aren't the one to make him happy. Besides, it 's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all?
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (3 July 2007):
 You cant break them up, because if he wanted you he would of broke up with her already, and he also wouldnt of sent her the conversations either, which seems like abit of a cruel thing to do as if they were laughing about it. I know its hard but move on.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): Hey there,I know it must suck when you've spent ages talking to this guy, getting to know him then someone swipes him from under your nose, but there are some things to consider.Firstly, it's not a good thing that he's forwarding on your conversations. Do you really want to be with the kind of boy who betrays your trust like that? Secondly, he now has a girlfriend. I'm afraid to say any chances of spliting them up will come to nothing, and will only make you feel worse. I would suggest blocking the girlfriend on your msn list though, she may be the kind of girl who'll enjoy sending messages about how great the two of them are together to make you feel bad, and you don't need that. Other than that, be a friend to this guy if you want, but nothing more. Like the first reply says, who knows what might happen in the future, but not now. By the way, I don't think you're a "real b*tch". You're just hurt because you've liked this guy for a while and still do, so you're confused as where to go from here which is perfectly understandable. That last comment was a bit uncalled for. Take care.
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reader, love-him +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Urm hey babe, dont break them up, that is so out of order! Do you not realise.. He doesnt like you enough to date you, if he is sending off your conversations.. I dont blame his girlfriend for sayin that to you..How would you feel?!?!Leave him alone, and fine a single lad..
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): To be honest I don't think you can. It seems this guy is deeply devoted to his girlfriend. You're a real b*tch for trying to get in the middle of that, and it's no surprise you feel like an idiot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): first of all i think that she's insecure and threatened by you by saying things like " he's mine". Ok, the both of you have great conversations? so why aren't you together? my thing is he may just see you as a friend. and have you told him how you felt? i think it's rude that he's forwarding all your "good long conversations", that's something private. you're young live it up. don't wait around for some guy when he doesn't know what's in front of him. hope that helps.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Im sorry but it is wrong to break a couplke up for our own selfish means and if you do you could end up hurting him and even your friendship.
If you really like this boy you would let him have his girlfriend and wait for an more apriopiate time to date him. like when he is single
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): believe me when i say breaking them up wont do anything for your relationship with him other than hurt it. did you ever think that maybe he really likes this girl? my advice dont try to break them up just be there as a good friend and you never know the world works in mysterious ways you and him may end up together but dont force a break up. if you really care about him you will think of his happyness before your own.
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