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writes:I like two guys. They both say they like me too but here is the problem. Guy 1 and I have known each other and for the past month we have been hanging out with each other, but he had a thing with my best friend. And I know I should step off, she had him first. But he says he likes me a lot. Then all of a sudden he says he is going to ask her out. But we secretly hung out today and I still really like him and I think he likes me too. Guy 2 is in one of my classes, and he is super sweet. I just met him like 2 weeks ago and he's telling me he loves me (WTF?)and I'm beautiful. And says his parents won't let him have relationships. But he's just so nice and he told me when he sees me next he wants to ask me out in person. What do I do????
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I am young Heck I'm only a sophmore in high school. But that doesn't change my problem. Guy1 is the guy I really like but, obviously can't have. Guy2 I like him so far, and he said he is going to ask me to be his girlfriend. I have two choices really. But what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I'm very young still, heck I'm only a sophmore, but that doesn't stop my problem from happening. I really really guy1(he is a junior) and I know guy2 (also a sophmore) is going to ask me to be his girlfriend. I don't know what to say, I can't be with guy1 obviously. This sucks :(
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reader, Blod  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 Do you need to be with either? You sound as if you just want someone to go out with but you don't really need to. You've listed negatives for both of them so why not just leave it? You're still very young. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): i'm sure we've all had this problem before.
it certainly sounds like guy number 2 sounds better and keener on you, if only it weren't for his parents.
Only you can tell yourself who to pick, but a good trick is to, for example, say heads is guy 1, and tails is guy 2, flip a coin and then see who it lands on. does your heart sink that it wasn't the other guy? or are you kind of happy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): i remember these kind of problems when i was younger... "asking someone out" and finding out who likes who. either way, i have 7 years experience on the matter, so here's my thoughts on it.Dude1) drop em. find someone else. Hes messin around with you and your best friend, and its causin you to go behind your friends back too. If you were the other girl, how would you feel if your best friend was backstabbing you? not so good im guessing. And btw, this guy is the kind of person that has 5 girlfriends when hes older, and everyone calls a douche (jersey shore style).Dude2) Cling status. if hes tellin you he loves you after knowing you for two weeks either hes been creepin on you for a LONG while, or hes never talked to a chick before. either way, thats kinda odd. Dont accept if he "asks you out" either.Id say drop both of em. one is a control freak playa, and the other is an unexperienced creep. I mean, take what i say with a grain of salt because I dont know em, but still think about it. Id say dont "go out" with anyone just yet. Hang out with some guys (nothing intense please), but dont get into a relationship. They only get more confusing and more messy. Take my word for it.
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