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writes:Background: I'm a 20 year old college student, female, only slept with two guys who I was in relationships with. Haven't had sex in almost a year after breaking up with my ex. My problem is that both of the guys I've slept with were larger than average, both in length and width. Lately I've been seeing a new guy, and we're getting to the point where we're ready for sex. However, he's really small in width and average in length, and whenever we start to fool around I get turned off by it, especially because I like guys who are thick.How do I get beyond this? I know that the quality of sex doesn't have to do with size, I know that I should give him the chance to prove me wrong, I know that I want it. And yet, when it comes down to it, I never can, even though I miss sex a lot and really want it. What do I do?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 Whether he can make you orgasm or sexually satisfied or not will depends on whether he has those great love making techniques.
If he does not ,it will only reinforced your opinions about those small sized guys.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 April 2010):
 You said it all - give it a chance. It may prove to be better than you think. Try to remember that sexual satisfaction is more mental than physical, especially for women, and what he can and will do before intercourse can make a big impact. I'm talking about foreplay and cunnilingus, of course. Style also matters.
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