A
female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone :) So ive been studying a new course for about 7 months. So like there's a guy, lets just refer to him as W. at the beginning of the term, i rarely spoke to him because of the age difference we have. he's turning 22 and i'm 18. Anyways, theres a girl in my class (lets call her A) that nobody seem to fancy her as a friend mostly because she brags about her background and show how rich she is. So anyways, nobody talks to W because A is always talking to him and when she sees anyone talking to W, she would glare at them like shes gonna kill them. Anyways I never really spoke to him often until back in February where we just chatted a little in school. We talk about dogs cuz we both are dog lovers and well we just talk like usual. and i steered clear of him because of A, i mean if she likes him, by all means she can have him. like i don't care about that honestly. However, A was absent for quite some time cuz she went back to her home country for her own personal reasons. So W started joining my friends and I but obviously, we still kept our distance because of A. But recently, W talks to me more often as sometimes coincidentally, we'd meet on the train heading to our school. So his mother is a really good baker and decided to make snacks for us and well once he casually asked what i think his mum should make and i jokingly said cookies and well... he brought cookies the next day... but the following week, A and W were talking during a class break, and i was just minding my own business and drawing on my book when i heard him say oh im bringing brownies on friday and i thought he was talking to A but then he called out to me specifically and said it to me and added unless you have any special requests? and I said no im good but A glared at me and i was just scared as heck. fast forward, we are heading towards the end of our course and well recently he's been texting me and asking if i could send him my notes as he's missing lessons because he lives far and doesnt want to travel all the way to school for 3 hour revision lesson. and now we chat a bit after and well we're quite close now as friends... and he sends me things that happens to him with his dogs... but today, my friends took a pic of me and sent it to a group chat that he's in (we have a trip coming together after our exams) and he texted me and just spark up a convo. I know I shouldn't make a deal out of this or read too much into it. But out of curiosity, does he like me or does he like me as a friend? This is kinda weird and foreign to me because so far in my life, no guy has like texted me first to just try to talk to me. So like yeahhh im kinda shy even writing about this XD Just to be clear, i really like him a friend but i dont think we can go further than that... at least at this point i dont think so. But yeahhhh im just curious. Im not flirtatious like A - shes blonde and beautiful. and im so asian. If theres any questions, im happy to answer and fill you in more...Thanks!!
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reader, N91 +, writes (12 April 2017):
 Well he hasn't asked you out or anything, so nothing to me suggest he likes you more than friends.
If you don't want more than friends and he hasn't given any sort of indication then what's the worry?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2017): If you only like him as a friend and nothing more, then I wouldn't try reading into anything, just get on with doing your thing.. if he makes any move just explain that you work best as friends.. I think (if your not interested in him as anything but friends and your literally just curious), your reading way too much into things and giving it way too much headspace. At best, he has a crush on you, but he's probably just feeling more at ease with you and becoming more of a friend.
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