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writes:Hi i wrote a question on here on may 1st. Thanks for the reply i got i was wondering if any of you out there could give me afew more replies to suggest what i should do. Hope you can,thanks. Here is my original question.Hi me and this girl have been best friends since we were at juniors. For the past 3 yrs i have started to have feelings for her but i've kept them to myself. But these past few months its getting impossible for people not to notice. Everytime i was near here i wanted to hold her, whenever we get close or just cuddle up together i really wanna kiss her, when i stop over at hers an i'm on the bed settee next to her i just want to go and get in with her and fall asleep with her. It's jut getting so painful. Well last week i was walking home with 2 of my best friends who happen to be hers as well and i ended up telling them, well actually they forced it out of me and apparently they knew how she felt about me and told me that she felt the same and that she wanted to tell me but was too scared. Anyway that does kinda make sense cuz she has been a bit weird around me lately (like wanting to be with me a lot more and she seems afraid of something when shes with me-like she wants to tell me but darent) and also as i said we do cuddle up infront of the tv sometimes so we are quite close and we do kiss each other goodbye and stuff which none of us do even though we are all best friends-like theres no 2/3 of us thats best friends and the others aren't.The only thing is i can seem to tell Luke more and she can tell karen more obviously we are both guys and they are both girls so none of us get left out. Now even though that I know how she feels but I don't know how to tell her or when or how to do it, i also feel very weird when hugging her now because these feeligs have got so strong its a little bit noticeable. Please help i really need to tell her!
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reader, Girl Pants  +, writes (4 May 2007):
 Hey there.
The thing that's happening to you now has happened to me.
I grew up with this guy since i was 5 years old. As we grow older, i started to develop feelings for him when i was 15. Like u, i do feel scared in telling him about my feelings to him. Whenever i'm with him, i really feel like holding him tight, not letting go.
Then last year, on our birthday(we have the same birthday), he confessed his feelings to me. I was shocked cos i didn't know he likes me too. So we are still together now. And thats one of the best thing that has happened to me.
You know, if he didn't make the first move, i wouldn't tell him about my feelings either. And we might still be keeping our feelings inside till today.
The same goes to you too. You have an advantage in a way that you know she likes you too. That make it easier.
Do you play the guitar? If you do then go and learn to play this song, "The Acoustic Song" by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus. And sing it to her. It WILL touch her heart.
If you don't play the guitar, then you can confess your feelings to her face-to-face. Just buy a stalk of red rose, NOT bunches of flowers - just a stalk. Stand infront of her and tell her what you feel deep inside. Try NOT to write down what you wanna say to her on a piece of paper and memorise it. No no. You will mess up big time. Just say what you really feel inside. You might stammer and all but it's what u really really feel.
Well, good luck. Feel free to drop me a message on other questions and follow ups!
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