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writes: Dear Cupidi saw my ex the other day since not seein him for over a month , and yes you guess it i fell so in love with him again. i got there and he kept looking at me and he asked to kiss me and cuddled me and stuff. i felt so loved and everything was right again. he made out like he still cared about me and wen i asked him wen i got home. it was "that was just friendly for me,i dont love you anymore"i really dont get it. was he just using me? or is he in denial. After this i saw him the next night because my friend had a drink up and invited him too. he didnt talk to me but kept looking at me and was upset for most the night. after we left he went to another gathering and i went home his friends told me he walked home and was really quiet and upset. i dont get it. what should i do? i kinda of know we wont get back but theres stil hope in me, i know that deep down he stil loves me even if it is the slightest bit. why cant he admitt it to me. what do you think he is thinking?
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (3 December 2006):
He sounds confused, only you know why you broke up in the first place. Is this a trust issue?
If he is not really to commit again, you need to respect that but you also need to move on.
Your ex should not lead you on if he does not want to give it a go.
Seeing each other is a reminder which would explain the looks.
He may not be able to let go, it does not mean that he still love you.
Have a longer break from each other and see if he contacts you but do not make out, just talk and take it slow.
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