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I know he just wants to be friends with them to get back at me....what can I do?

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Question - (12 June 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2006)
A female , *oveisapain writes:

Hi I am curantly in a relationship where at first it was just to get away from my ex boyfriend Cory. but no matter what I do he is always there. now he has decided to try to be friends with my close friend and cousin.I know it is just to get back at me. What should I do????

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2006):

Wendyg agony auntHe will soon get fed up if you show your not bothered by it. Hes doing it to irritate you, and clearly it has. Be the bigger person and let him get on with it and carry on as normal, let him see hes not getting to you even if he is... show him is the more mature and let him carry on being silly.

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A female reader, Smiler +, writes (12 June 2006):

Smiler agony auntHey Sweetie

I agree with you totally honey he's just doing this to get to you, you need to tell your mate and counsin exactly what his game is and how its making you feel he's well out of order if you ask me he needs sorting out he's just being a child, sadly i know its getting to you at the moment but you have to try and be strong and show him it does'nt phase you even though it does hide it cause other wise he is getting exactly what he wants and he will keep on doing it knowing its getting to you

I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation sweetie and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok

You Take Care Sweetie X

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A female reader, sibaan +, writes (12 June 2006):

sibaan agony auntignore him and wait for his childish stage to pass then tell him that he is childish and needs to grow up other wise he will never truly be a happy man

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A female reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):

auntie claire agony auntdear reader hello again i think what i would do is warn your friends and cousin what this guy is up to hopefully they will see his tricks and tell him where to go be strong be firm with him and tell him its not on but most of all try not to let him bring you down and mess up your happiness. all the best hun xxx

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