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I know everyone is telling me get to know him before I do anything but I don't know. please help me!!!

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Question - (17 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *helbyy-x writes:

Im a bisexual girl and i kinda dated this girl once a little over a year ago but i broke up with her because i was not over my first girl friend to this day im still not but im moving on from her

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im kinda but not officially dating a girl and i like her alot but i dont love her well she loves me i dont wanna hurt her or lose her as a friend but i met this guy 2 days ago that i have been talking to for 3 weeks and hes so fucking amazing like i feel like im gonna fall for him instantly i feel like me and him would be great together but im afraid of him not liking me or something or him hurting me like every guy has in the past. i dont know what to do. i know everyone is telling me get to know him before i do anything but i dont know. please help me!!!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2008):

Well you have to split up with your girlfriend before you do anything. Yes it will hurt her, but you can't keep leading her on just because you want to keep her around as a friend. That is selfish.

As for this guy, well get to know him, get close to him. He may like you and once you are single then you can go for it, but if he doesn't like you then you have gained a friend.

Good Luck!! xx

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