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writes: My b/f may probably use his cell for work..but i doubt all the time. He does not have many contacts in his phone..Its not little..but its not A LOT..but I have looked through his cell once in awhile--and i see dialed numbers with no name and even recieved or missed with no name as well. There have been times where i have called these numbers in the past and most times it was a guy or an office or something. One time it was a girl--but it might have been an accident b/c i think it was a missed call and not like a dialed one. He does have a good memory for numbers but is this something i should check up on once in awhile. I haven't called any numbers in a long time but i am tempted to. We both agree we shouldn't be talking to the opposite sex(like being friends with them or hanging out with them one on one--thats just how we are etc) Maybe someone from the past is ok..like one or two. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Yes, you definitely need to work on your insecurity. Talk to a therapist and/or take some time every day to sit quietly, with some inspirational reading, or a few verses from the Bible.......no boyfriend, no person, can EVER fulfill your (our) need to feel loved and secure. That needs to come from a higher power - God, if you like, or feeling that you belong to the universe, if you don't believe in God. Just think: when the universe first came into being - the Big Bang - all the elements that formed the stars eventually spread and when a star (a sun) dies (goes nova in an explosion) its elements are flung out into space. What this means is that literally EVERYTHING, rocks, water, soil, air, fire, plants, animals, people, dead or alive, are composed of "star stuff." We have indeed a "royal lineage." Spend a little time dwelling on that, visualize it in your own mind; check it out on the 'net......take time to be still, maybe listen to some favorite music, and absorb the fact that you are valued just because you exist. When you can feel this in your gut - not intellectually in your head - you will feel secure enough not to need to check his cell phone numbers.
Meantime, please resist the temptation to call them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006):
I cant imagine why any guy would put up with this, and I am think its only a matter of time before you get caught
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): That is an invasion of his privacy. If you do not trust him why are you with him? Maybe you should check your own insuecurities and stop invading his privacy before you loose him.
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