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anonymous
writes:FAST REPLY IF POSSIBLE.Okay, this isn't about relationships, but about friends.I upset my best friend a little bit, I apologized and knew I was wrong. I told one of my other so called "friends" about it, asking for advice on what I should do (lets call her Bob for now) but she ended up having a go at me, she said she saw both my point and my best friend's but she always seemed to be against me. She told her best friend, who also ended up having a go at me as well. I didn't care that they were being mean to me, I was just interested in making up with my best friend, which I spoke to later on and she said that everything was still amazing between us, then I was really happy. I then tried making up with "Bob" but she wasn't having any of it and kept changing the subject to how I apparently always joke around and never take anything seriously. I kept apologizing but she wouldn't stop getting angry. Now I'm pretty sure she's just trying to turn my best friend (and my other really good friends) against me since when I spoke to my best friend again, she seemed to have said the same things "Bob" said. I still have other amazing friends but I really don't want to lose this one and I don't want things to change. I also really want to be friends with "Bob" again, in despite of what she said to me. Pleeeease help me with this, it will be greatly appreciated.Extra information:- We're all 13/14, I am 13- I am very easy going and like to have fun, that may be why Bob said the things she said.- Me and my best friend have been in a group for ages, Bob suddenly came into the picture.- Friends are very important to meThankyou lots for your help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): It sounds like you have lots of respect for your friends which is great, obviously i dont know the full story but it seems as if they are in the wrong here, not you. I'm the same kind of age as you and my friends are really important to me too, but you cant let them affect your morals if you know what i mean. 'bob' sounds like a bit of a stirrer and almost like shes not worthy of your friendship to be honest, you say she has only just joined your group etc so she may be trying to change things between you and mutual friends. She hasnt really told you exactly why shes annoyed with you which is pretty immature and pathetic to just go in a big mood and have a little bitch to your other mate who seemed to be fine with your apology!
If i were you, i would leave your friends to it for a while to give them some space to get their story straight and calm down a bit. You have apoligized enough, so its up to them whether they are big enough to get over it. just watch out for bob, and remember if they keep coming up with these stupid excuses you might have to think twice about being friends with them.
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