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writes:Ok. Quickly summed up. I am a 14 year old student and I have fallen in Love with a teacher at my school. He doesn't teach me for anything because he teaches Spanish and I do French. Although I go to badminton after school and he does that. At school it is common knowledge that I am in love with him. He is 26, 27 in November and single. Everyone who he teaches will often tell him that o love him and once he took my RE lesson as a cover. And everyone kept going, "oh sir. Hannah loves you" I am Hannah. It made me embarrassed that everyone was sayig this as I do generally love him and we flirt with each other very often. People have seen us innocently flirting and we don't even notice that we do it. The head of languages has noticed and he knows that we won't sleep together. What I am saying is I really want to tell him that I love him. But how do I do this. I want to apologize for what everyone was saying that lesson and then admit that it is true. This of course will all be said off record. At our school off record is just the same as two people in a pub.I know about no student and teacher relations which is why I know nothing will become of it. Please. Don't tell me that I am a silly little chit for doing this or grow up because I've heard it all on similar posts. I just want to know what you think.
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reader, IrishLeprechaun +, writes (4 July 2009):
IrishLeprechaun is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for this. I have told my closest friends about maybe telling him and they were all like, yer go for it.
Now you've said this I feel a lot better and I definately won't approach him. I can't update anything between us because we still have two weeks left at school before summer but he has gone to India for a month so I won't see him until I go back in September. But don't worry. I will update in a few months.
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reader, justme..x  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 hiya, it's ok, you're not silly or wrong for loving him. loads of people go through something similar including me, though everyone's situation is different :)I appreciate your feelings are strong and real, but Iwouldn't advise telling him. you already know all the problems and legalities with student/teacher relationships; and if your feelings are common knowledge then there's not a lot of point anyway. He probably already knows to some degree how you feel about him, and it would be a lot more comfortable between you if you didn't declare it directly. The relationship you already have is harmless enough; in fact you're lucky - not all girls who love their teachers get flirty conversations etc. So just keep going as you are, and try and keep in touch once you've left school. Good luck! xxx
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reader, Starlights +, writes (4 July 2009):
 its very normal to have a crush on a teacher and love him , but u know he cant ever give u the same love in return so why admit it to him?
what good will it do?
im guessing he probably knows u love him by now so u dont have to repeat it over to him again.
good luck!
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reader, Rebbie  +, writes (4 July 2009):
Its perfectly normal...it happens...I have a friend who was in love with a teacher once and she told ME to tell him...I did, but after that he said I got him worrying ( I had told him it was really serious) You never know!! All I can say,sweet...enjoy it to the fullest!!! There´s people who are not able to flirt or even meet the people they love...consider yourself one of the lucky! Best of luck, sweet!!
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