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writes:Hello everyone, I will keep it short. I lost my virginity a few weeks ago so I am still kind of new at this. I have been with my boyfriend for awhile, but I just feel like I dont know what I am doing. I know what to do, but what else can I do besides just laying there? Also, when we are doing it doggystyle, am I just supposed to stay still? I am so confused and I want to feel like I am actually doing something! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Anyway... Why don't you try looking on Google for sex tips for women? Laying there really really really would bore the hell out of me. Then again, I usually take charge and move her around... Hmmm... Mhm... 8]
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reader, Smiler +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Try and get yourself a copy of the Karma Sutra this is a book which shows you lots of different sexual positions, enjoy the book together :o)! you and your man could have fun could have fun trying all the new positios and experimenting which you like and which turns you on the most... NEVER DO ANYTHING YOUR NOT 100% COMFORTABLE DOING OK IF YOU DON'T FEEL RIGHT OR HAPPY SAY NO! having said that i hope the book brings you lots of fun and varies your knowledge about postions. You sound very sweet and your innocence is a credit to you enjoy that innocence don't be in such a hurry to gain sexual experience as this will come to you all in good times Have Fun :o)
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation babe and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): For a start, you are very new to this so don't worry so much - you're bf should understand that you will not be an expert. Secondly, there is no right or wrong way to have sex, just do what feels good. The more you relax, the better it will become. When he is having sex with you from behind, push back gently if it feels right - it is best not to be too rigid and just go with the flow, but you can by all means allow him to set the pace. Finally, don't worry so much! With practice you will be fine. Have fun sweetie!!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): laying there is perfectly fine if you dont wana ave a gd sex life and dnt wana please ur bf, what ever position u are doing i suggest you move, it really improves the sex
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reader, bikiniilove_xX +, writes (19 June 2006):
im a virgin but i have older friends who have already lost there virginity. from what they've told me, just laying there is fine, but i think they told me that they like when you give them a handjob or bj... not to be gross thats just what i've heard. theres not really any wrong way to do it, experiment.
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reader, bikiniilove_xX +, writes (19 June 2006):
im a virgin but i have older friends who have already lost there virginity. from what they've told me, just laying there is fine, but i think they told me that they like when you give them a handjob or bj... not to be gross thats just what i've heard. theres not really any wrong way to do it, experiment.
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