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female
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anonymous
writes:I just do not think we are right for each other. I try; i think he tries. But we have conflict most of the time. we have three kids and are NOT married... thank goodness. I just want the picture perfect home and family. He IS the dad. I do Like him, but just am not sure about love. Can you help??(he breaks things when he is mad... TOTALLY PISSES me OFF!) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): He needs anger management therapy. Might I ask how you got three kids without being married to someone you don't think is right for you? Did you really think having kids would make your relationship with this man work....can't you figure out birth control? Sorry, but it irks me that so many young women in the US become baby factories with men they are not married to, and then expect the fairy tale.....you cannot put the baby before the commitment required to be in a loving happy relationship.....only your child is going to pay for your mistakes....
That said, if he is abusive to you by breaking things in anger, then you need to think about what is best for you and your children....if he is unwilling to go to therapy to better handle his anger issues.
This doesn't sound like a healthy environment for children to be raised in.
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