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writes: i love the father of my child and i care bout him alot but we argue all the time and he rarely keeps his promises to me we break up and get back together all the time i sometimes think he cheats on me but i dont know for sure. i really really love him but i think the best thing for me is to let him go but i dont know how we have a kid together and hes just keeps poppin into my life. and im also really sad when im not with him and i cry all the time but i just dont know if being with him is the right thing anymore. Any advice on how to get over him fast???
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): This is a tough one. I could say from experience that you need to get out of the relationship with your boyfriend. It sounds as if he is abusive. He is not respectful of your feelings, and breaks promises.
Before you do call it quits, perhaps you can ask him to sit and talk to you about the ongoing issues you have. If you put all the problems out there, he may be able to understand where you are coming from and show you some compasion. If he is a total jerk, he will not care to listen to you and that is a huge sign to get out while your still young.
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reader, mrs.ktty +, writes (10 December 2008):
breaking up and getting back togeather is not good for a relationship i think u should just let go of it because u dont want to find ur self 5 yrs from now doing the same thing it will never work like that. even thuough u have a kid that shouldnt stop u if ur not happy get out of it its best for u and ur child. good luck
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