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writes:I'm 14 years old and I have a girlfriend. I love her a lot but I just don't have the guts to kiss her I don't know why. Shes not my first, and its never happened to me before. I just have the filling that I'm going to mess up and lose her. can you pls help me? should I kiss her or wait a little bit more? Reply to this Question
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reader, D.K. +, writes (20 November 2010):
D.K. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all I fell much better now :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): Hey there babe! I am 14 as well. Yea well even if she is not your first and you really love her alot then maybe you are feeling alot closer to her then you have in your past relationships and it could be because you have strong feelings for her and that is totally not a bad thing. Well if you feel nervous then wait just a little while because if she really loves you she would understand and wait with you to:] But if she is just dating for the sake of kissing then she really isn't the girl for you, and you can go and find someone else who you feel alot closer to. And don't get to attached to her because you and me are young and we have a long way to go about the whole dating idea so right now go out have fun and enjoy yourself:] Good luck:]
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reader, WinnieThePoohRocks!  +, writes (19 November 2010):
kiss her for feck sake , if she dumps ya becuz ya mess up she clearly dont love you ! and when you have this nervousness now its clear you love her alot more than ur first kiss !
just go for it :) ur only young once ! whatve you got too loose :)
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reader, muffy  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Well hun,just know that it'll all work out in the end.Don't plan anything,just let it happen.Let nature take it's course.If you guys happen to bump heads or something like that happens,just laugh about it.It's not a big deal sweetie.I don't think your girlfriend will leave you if you mess up.Your too sweet of a guy for her to leave you.If you need anything just let me know.
Love and kisses,
Muffy33
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): it sounds like you feel differently about her, so you're not being stupid and kissing her right away!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Don't worry about it, just be yourself. If a kiss is going to happen the right time will come and you will just fall into it. Don't plan it or you will ruin the moment. Who knows, she may kiss you first, now theres a thought.. You seem a very nice young man.
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