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*abbahut905
writes:I've sent To questions about my being dumped by text earlier this week and the pain doesn't seem to be getting any better if anything its getting worst especially since going back to work , I've had to run to the bathroom 15 times in the last two days cos I keep breaking down . I really don't feel I can Go on I just miss Kimberly So much but also feel ripped up , empty and Raw inside I'm going away on a cruise next week and I don't feel that I have even began to start to get over Kim , everything just reminds me of her alot of music cos thats what her and I did alot of the time so I just can't listen to hardly anything right now or do any activities I was with her for 2 and a half months but was already in love with her for the 2 months before we started dating so I had become really attached This is absolute hell I just can't go on .
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): Listen, don't say you can't go on, because you can. I couldnt get over my bf who I had a shorter time that you had ur gf, for the longest time. It took me like a year cause it was my first boyfriend. Even though he probablly didn't count as a REAL bf...But anyway thats beside the point. My point is, if she was your first real girlfriend, that could be why you feel like you need her in your life. Cause you didn't have any other relationships.. But if she doesn't need you in her life, snap out of it and forget about her.. You can do that... If you start to think about her, just stop. Go out with your friends, do something fun to get your mind off of her. Because you gotta ask yourself, "Is she thinking of me right now like I am thinking of her? Does she care about me like I do for her?"Because this may sound harsh but it seams like she doesn't care. Talk to a close friend and know that there's plenty of other girls out there who are better. She's not good enough for you.. You seam like a good person. Don't let her interfere with your life that much.. It's the past and the quicker you realise it, the better. xox, anonymous
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reader, Jabbahut905 +, writes (24 August 2007):
Jabbahut905 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYour words have already started to make a difference I cannot imagine getting thru this without the help of so many good people in my life in my family and on this site so rockelle , Jamer70 , and eyeswideopen thankyou so much for your words of support and encouragement I don't know how i could've gotten thru this without your help and various other sites
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 You need to give yourself some time to feel upset, and hurt. Thats natural when you loose someone you love, it takes just as long for you to fall out of love as it took you to fall in love. If I were you I would keep in mind that everything happens for a reason, and when a relationship ends that is just Gods way of making room in your life for someone better to come along. I hope all goes well for you, its ok to be upset, but if I were you Id be looking forward to my cruise forget about Kim. There will be about 10 Kims on your trip, so have fun.
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