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writes:Alright, let me start with a little back story here. I met a girl (A) through a few friends of mine, we hung out a few times, I never really felt "it" with her, so we just became friends.A few weeks back, a friend of hers (B) from home came to visit her and I totally hit it off with B. We talked quite a bit about mutual interests (of which there are many), and had a lot of playful physical contact. Nearly every day since then we've talked / texted (more often than not with B initiating), so naturally I figure she's interested. So, I invite B to a concert (which is this weekend) I really want to go see, just the two of us. She says she'd love to. Then A found out, and was less than pleased. I get a text from A saying that we need to talk. So, I stopped over at her place last night and got a "You're a nice guy, it's not you it's US" speech from her. She said B had called her wondering if she had given me the wrong idea, so A thought she had better warn me, so "it didn't get awkward" between the three of us.There's a long story behind this, but I have certain reasons to believe what A told me might not be entirely true. So, I talked to B last night about Saturday, not bringing up this conversation I had with A, and B proceeded to prepare me to meet her family (we're meeting at her house first). I'm still confident about the situation, but needless to say I have a few things that need clearing up. As clever as I possibly can, I plan to bring up the whole thing on Saturday, but I'm wondering if it's a good idea, or if I should sit back and see what happens.
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (14 November 2008):
Obviously A may be upset but if you dont like her then you dont like her and theres nothing you can do about it. You will have to explain you like B and B likes you. Its sad that she may get hurt but you like B and thats the end of it.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Triangles are nasty things and never turn out well for anyone. You and B were wrong and there is no way out of that. This is so common and yet everyone who starts the triangle acts as if they have never heard of such a thing or the trouble it causes.
She betrayed her friend and you helped her betray the friend while betraying A.
Women LOVE to take men away from men and Men love having women fight over them. Not good.
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reader, wayblonde6 +, writes (14 November 2008):
See how the night goes so how she acts towards you than I think at the end of the night bring it up.or if it doesn't feel right than wait.
Girls can be quite catty and jelious so if u want anything to happend between you and person b hah I think you should be open about it. I mean if she did call her friend and really say that u also have to be prepared for that.
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