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writes: I am 25, shy and a virgin.I feel I would like to ask a female co-worker out but unsure if she has any interest in me at all.My crush started when she dropped papers on the floor and I helped her pick them up - a few weeks later I dropped something and she helped me.Since then we only say hello if walking towards each other (like any other co-worker)Is it worth asking her?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (21 January 2006):
 Well at least she knows who you are by sight! If you stop her and just ask her out and she turns you down you will be mortified forever. You need to find a way of starting a conversation with her other than the obligatory hello.Have you thought about approaching her in the canteen, cafe and strikinhg up a bit more of a conversation.? This may be difficult as you are shy but at least you can get to know her a little, before you idealise her too much in your own head. She may be just as shy as you, so bite the bullet and make discrete observations whilst in work about when she goes fro her coffee break and go start a conversation.Life is too short to have regrets over what you didn't do. Please take a deep breath and go for it. Nothing ventured nothing gained, be brave and GOOD LUCK!! x
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (13 January 2006):
 Rather than going straight for the juglar maybe you could build your confidence by striking up a conversation with her. Make it about anything, music, tv, food, drink, news. If you can try and find a common interest and talk about that. Build from there and see where things lead you.
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