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writes: I don't know what to do, as there is this guy I have liked for months now. We became good friends and I went round his house and everything went well, but then to my surprise he suddenly told me that he just wanted to be friends. I was really upset by this and we didn't talk for a while but then made friends again. But now he's saying that he fancies me again. I was planning to get with him at a party, but then his friend had told my friend that he said I was his "Plan B". So basically if he didn't get with anyone else, he would get with me! This really hurt, but his friend said he only said it in a jokey way and was just trying to look big in front of his friends. I told his friend that he had blown it with me unless he apologizes, but I know he's quite shy and won't say anything. I still really like him too. What shall I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2006): Listen to your friends..they are trying to make you think sensibly because they care about you. Why do you even like this guy after finding out that he made a 'joke' about you being the second best or plan B? Dear..you like a guy who made and will continue to make you 'feel' second-rate and strung-along. Dating him and knowing what he said about you...will forever haunt you and you will eventually feel worse about yourself, knowing you settled for what he's offereing..which is really nothing substantial. Don't do this to yourself. If you are considering a date with him...you need to ask yourself why you'd settle for him and why you feel you may deserve so little. I don't care if he was joking..for him to say such a disrespectful thing about another person, is pretty shallow and immature. You are young..get out and have fun, be happy, live your life, date guys who will treat you well and make you feel first rate. Learn from this..don't let anyone 'tear' you down. He's an ass...kick him to the curb. Take care hun and keep respecting yourself.
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reader, love bug +, writes (12 March 2006):
love bug is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea basically he still hasnt talked to me and im really hurt but his friend text me saying that it was only a joke and that i shouldnt be annoyed with him but i really am what should i do my friends think that hes not worth it but i really like this guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2006): i had the same problem a while ago i told him that i had heard what he had told his friends and i was really upset at the time! he apologised and really ment it so i would give it a go but if all else fails thers plenty mre fish in the sea
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