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writes:Recently split with my boyfriend and its been about 2/3 weeks and not heard from him! i miss him so bad! xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): Do not under any circumstances call him, if he is into you at all anymore, which most likely he is, trust me he will think of an excuse and call you. It is better that he contact you first instead of you contacting him first, expecially if he broke it off with you. When he does call you, you need to act like things are going great in your life, that will scare him and give him something to think about, like you can make it without him, believe me he doesn't want to believe that. Hang in there
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reader, willywombat +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Don't go back there. You are probably over the worst so don't seek him out. Move on, he clearly has. Be strong, big hugs...willy.
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reader, Nikita +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Hi anon, well if he hasnt called you then i think its because he realises its over and has moved on. I know you're missing him and it hurts but i think you should try and get on with your life. go out with your friends and have fun and eventually you'll realise that you dont think about him so much and you dont miss him so much. If he does call in the mean time then fine but dont sit around waiting for him because you're just wasting your life when you could be out meeting new people and having a good time! Good luckx
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reader, Adrian.Dion +, writes (17 December 2006):
 Interesting,.. I'm going thru the same thing.
I'm pretty sure that he's missing you too. The only thing that I'm unsure about is where it is written that the guy always has the burden of making the first call to reconcile.
It should be a shared responsibility.
Nevertheless, call him... You will only be hit w/ the sincerity of the direction of your relationship by his 'energy' when he picks up or not responds to your msg.
Best wishes..
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reader, Kinky +, writes (17 December 2006):
Dear Girl,
If you feel that you need a second chance to patch back with him, perhaps you may like to ask him out and have a good talk or do you have any mutual friends that can help your to solve the problem?
If there is no way to turn back the clock, you must try your best to forget him and move on with your new life, at the moment, its not easy for you though but you have to be strong, that's not end of the world alright, cheer up, make yourself busy, go out with friends or join some activities, times will heal your wound, don't be sad.
Best wishes Baby :)
Best wishes
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reader, Aunty Haly +, writes (17 December 2006):
Sorry to hear about this Hun, but although you may not want to hear it, i think your relationship is over, and deep down you must know this, I know that it hurts and you feel lost but eventually you'll feel better about it. Can you not get together with your girl friends and have some fun together to take your mind off it. Remember its christmas, there'll be tons of party's going on where your guarenteed to have some fun. Oh and don't leave home without your mistletoe, you never know you may meet a gorgeous man this christmas.
Good Luck Hun xx
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reader, sweetiegirl  +, writes (17 December 2006):
 It may be that it's just over between ya's, you need to find something (or someone depending on how you do things)
to fill your time like start hanging out with friends more or just take up a hobby even if it's something small like reading, you just need something to keep your mind off of him.
hope that helps
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