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writes: Hey, I just probably want to get it of my chest, and advice. For quite some time i've really had some strong feelings for a guy, one major problem his gay.I know why do this to myself! I've tried brushing it aside, brining logic into it- his gay what has got into you etc. By now I should of forgotten my feelings for him. Even though I flirt with loads of other guys -(he is always taking the mick) I still feel attracted to him and feel quite sad. Proabably won't see him much longer so thats good.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (29 April 2006):
 You have probably fallen for him as he is a totally NON-THREATENING MALE, me and my friends call them NTM's for short. You know the sort of guys you acn flirt with and mess around with without them thinking it automatically leads to sex. Or it could be because you KNOW that you cannot have him so it makes you want him even more. Or just cos he has a really cool personality and is good looking. I feel for you having been here myself with God's absolute gift TO OTHER MEN!!! If you know what I mean. It is totally bloody unfair..... so I can't really give you any major advice. Just to tell you that you are not alone and this happens to more people than you could possibly know!
Good luck coping.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (29 April 2006):
 You can take a chance and tell this man what you feel and allow him to respond. Who knows he might swing both ways, you'll never know until you ask.
OR Time will heal this. You can distance yourself from this person now and give yourself the time to allow the hormones to slowly dissipate.
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