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writes: My OH doesn't seem to understand how i am feeling. I have been suffering from PND and i need some info about it. I also could do with something explaining things about sex, like that not all women automatically go off sex just because they are pregnant or have just had a baby. He went off sex with me before we knew i was pregnant! Also, something which explains and advises dads on how they can be supportive and that their support and affection is essential. Does anyone know of any good websites about parenting?I know that will be a difficult one but i have looked all over the place and found lots of sites but none that really give the info i'm after. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi just updating. I've looked at some of those sites. They are ok but I haven't found anything that's really helped. My partner is still not interested. He still seems to prefer to be in the pub than at home with me and then stays downstairs to watchtv while i wait for him to come to bed. I'm usually asleep by the time he gets back from the pub. I have told him how it makes me feel and despite saying that he wants to work things out and make it better, he is still not trying and I still can't get any physical attention from him.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (5 March 2006):
 Your guy sounds like he has some major issues which, judging from what you have said about him going off sex before you got pregnant, may be physical and may need a visit to the doctors surgery for bloodtests or a chat to sort out. There could be an underlying problem which he cannot discuss with you. Sex is one of those *use it or lose it things* the more you have tyhe more you want and conversely the less you have the less you can be bothered!
So encourage him to get a check-up.
Your GP is the first porty of call in this situation
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe was there at the birth but he went off sex before we found out i was pregnant so i don't get that.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (23 February 2006):
 The other two people have given you all the info you need to be getting on with I can only tell you that it gets better and with time, support and the love of a good man you will come through this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006): oh beyondblue.org.au says they can explain pnd!!...www.pregnancy-info.net/sex_problems.html www.babycenter.com/pregnancy/pregnancysex www.babycentre.co.uk/refcap/561753.html www.aphroditewomenshealth.com/ ubb/ultimatebb.php?/topic/3/378/2.html or else try your local community centre i reckon...ok good luck ...again...bye bye!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006): have you tried the nursing mothers ascociation? or something like that ...i've heard some guys going off sex if they witness the actual birth..i'm sure he'll get over it!!...let's hope anyways ay? good luck sorry i cant help u more at the moment...i'll check out the web and see what i can find and write in again if i have any luck!! cya!
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