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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm somewhat confident when it comes to men. I can ask anybody for pretty much anything i want. However when it comes to girls then i dunno what happens. I've been clubbing quite a few times and i've noticed that i ALWAYS get at least two girls standing next to me. I usually don't know what to do or say. I'm literally nor afraid of any guy. I could go up to the biggest beefiest brawniest guy and ask him anything while maintaining intense eye contact and not even flinch but with girls, virtually all stare at me like i'm some creep.For example a few weeks ago i was in a club just dancing on my own in the middle of the floor when 3 girls come near me. I carried on then had the guts to ask one of them "Hey what's your name" She turned around and juts gave me this look that seemed to say "what the **** do you think you're doing" she then ran off with her mates and i just wanted to cry.I usually notice girls just checking me out in the street and i just felt really awkward. I don't know why.I should mention that i've NEVER had a good experience with women/girls. My sister rebukes and just abuses me all the time and i'm no longer speaking to her. My mum has no faith in me and she also doesn't think i'm capable of much and also abused me by not letting me go out with my mates when i was younger.I'm definitely not gay coz i watch a lot of porn and get horny and i'd like a girl i can just SMASH HARD ALL THE TIME.I don't get why people dont like me. I'm a bit of a social retard and i'm not usually clued up well so maybe people assume i'm a snob or just uninterested. I'm nice but not too nice. If someone makes the effort to talk then i reciprocate very well. I also dont like myself as i'm very skinny and have narrow shoulders and not manly enough. I can't drink a pint without throwing up or eat a meal in quickly like everyone else. One of my friends was saying that i'm a girl and laughed when i told him i've never had a g/f I cant play football or any sport without humiliating myself and i'm interested in stuff nobody my age is.TL : DRI'm somewhat confident but have ULTRA low/NON EXISTENT self esteem (dont ask how that's possible)I can talk to guys but have NO idea how to engage with girls my age (19) I'd like a girlfriend as everyone has had one and they're all just ****ing each other all the time while i'm stuck with youjizz I felt like i don't deserve a girl/woman and that no girl could ever love me. One of my male friends said that i'm "quite handsome" and says that he sees girls checking me out all the time but i never seem to see it myself.
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reader, Bexii_19 +, writes (2 April 2011):
lol this made me laugh, i was just about to post a similar question and then saw yours, its nice to know i'm not the only one. Your like the male version of me.
i have low/non-exsistant self esteem but i'm quite confident. ive never had a proper bf, and i always think to myself that i must be doing something wrong. But the truth is 9 times out of 10 its not your fault, if you arnt amazing looking like me, you have to do something to get you noticed, i'm always the one dancing in the middle of the dance floor on my own.
Girls/guys are too shallow and think it will make them look good if theyve got some model on their arm, you just have to keep looking until you find someone who is more down to earth.
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