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writes:Wow.. something is wrong with me.. i think..I'm 17 and I've never had any .."authentic" female friends, other than talking to them during class... Im afraid that I'm getting to the point where I'm desperate to have almost any girl like me, because if they like me, then I would like them and share all my good moments with them and care about their lives and help them, etc. Of course, I don't plan to spoil them, but do you see what I mean? I just want someone to spend time with.. but since I'm so desperate, even having a normal female friend would do.. because before going to college next year i need to solve my problem of being awkward around girls outside the class , due to lack of exposure and experience. Does anybody have any ideas ? How does everyone else in life make friends with the opposite sex? I can't just spontaneously go up to someone and be like do you wanna hang out sometime. Even after a conversation, people will take it the wrong way and think im getting close to them just becuase i like them for more. Anyways, I was confident all the way until now, really self-confident, and i feel my self-esteem slipping.. maybe it's because of how depressing school is lately... I stare at my AIM buddy list and almost slap myself.. because I see many good friends on that I can talk to... but 50 of them are guys and 2 are females who I don't converse with.. I'm so desperate that I'm resorting to looking at random places online that I shouldn't be looking to try to get people to talk to me.. Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (5 March 2007):
 hey hun, just be ureself and relax..not everyone finds it easy to socialise some easier than others to be honest..if you know some females say hi how ya doing build up a rapour with the females if you dont wanna be upfront with build it up each day saying a little more than the last, thats what i do.. some people go onto chat sites to make friends or just to have a laugh nothing wrong with it unless it harms anyone.. hope this helps xxx A
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