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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey,,i have hurt a girl emotionally accidently, i had some problems and i couldnt keep in touch with her,, i really like her and care about her!!,, since then she doesnt wanna talk to me or look me in the eye,, i have tried to talk to her before but she seemed hurt and said i dont wanna talk with you now,, anyway later i managed to ask how is she doing n if she was fine,, i had a 5 min conversation later on so things are going back well ,, at least this what i hope :(..my question is do you think sending her home a valentine day greeting card saying that i like her and i care about her with red flowers and plus something else maybe??? will be a good idea??thats what i want help in, what should i say n what should i give to her??cuz i really want her and i care for her so i cant just let her go easily!! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): Personally if a guy just simply sent me flowers and a card after breaking my heart, I wouldn't pay him any attention. That is so cliché and most girls can get such from a number of guys. If however, he put in a little more effort (if he really wanted me) then he needs to do something special. A nice idea is maybe a treasure hunt where she dashes off to find a number of clues and maybe the last clue leads you to her waiting with your bunch of flowers or dinner or whatever. Ages ago, an old boyfriend did this after a bad fight and I still think about him dreamily (he moved to another country). A paid up taxi came to my house with an unfinished letter apologising, and to read the next part of the letter I was to go in the taxi to the next place where clues were. I remember some of the places were a church fountain, a playground swing, the man on counter 4 at the post office then the restaurant manager where he was waiting for me in a private dining area. I was blown away by the effort he made. Ofcourse this may be a little extreme for the unimaginative but it depends how important she is to you really.
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