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writes: ive been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and when i first met his uncle i liked him but have recently jus bin on holiday with them and his uncle came on to me i really really like his uncle but hes married, 30 and has 3 kids i dont know what to do all i think about his him..
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (10 October 2006):
 Oh Baby....don't go there.
He is tellling you that to get in your young little panties and if He gets caught he gets to say you are a slut...look at her sleeping with my nephew and constantly coming onto me and wearing skimpy things around me etc..etc....
And sure he wants to dream of being young and having no responsibilities again....but he's really just telling you what he Knows will pull your heart strings while he adjusts himself hoping your young and stupid enough to fall for his little fantasy. He sees a goal of having sex with a young tender morsel that will make HIM feel young again(and not one second further no matter what he SAYS)...because that ole age thing is sneaking up and grabbing him all of a sudden. He blinked and his twenties are gone and he's just this old dad guy now....and there...there you are.....the most beautiful woman he's met in.....wow....a couple years at least. He would do anything to have you...and telling a lie is soooooo easy. If he wants to leave them...say sure as soon as your divorced...I would love to see you...I will be 18 by then. Right now He thinks he hates his life...and you could make it all better. Hey...lets practice now...and keep it a secret....then when the stars are perfectly aligned...I will jump off a cliff declaring my love of the new little girl and dump my Children...My CHILDREN...for you.
Hey Ask him if someone his age were to have sex with one of his daughters....what would he do to them? Then once he answers that he'd kill them...say "Funny...that's exactly what my dad would say" Walk away. Don't go there...because YOU will loose...him...and your boyfriend ..and your self esteem because the family will kiss and make up...BLAMING all the bad on YOU.
Ugh....Don't boink relatives of those you are dating....BELIEVE ME!
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (10 October 2006):
 Ok, there are going to be a lot of people who will get hurt here. If you really feel that you want to be with someone else, then finish with your boyfriend. This is not fair on him at all. His uncle is acting very immature. His kids will grow up and make their own decisions, he can be sure of that. This man is being selfish and is not putting his childrens future or feelings into consideration.
Personally, I feel like there is no future for the 2 of you, mainly due to him being so self-centred. He got the attention from a younger girl and told you he would just leave his wife and kids at the drop of a hat. Chances are, he will do exactly the same thing to you in a few years time.
There are 5 innocent people who can and will get hurt, your boyfriend and his wife and kids. If you can really make this relationship work, knowing what these people will go through, then give it a chance. I personally feel this man is only interested in you sexually, but what do I know? I am only on the outside looking in. Best perspective you can have because judgement is not clouded.
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reader, kirsty-lou +, writes (10 October 2006):
kirsty-lou is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim 17 and he came on to me and we was talking that night and he said i would leave my kids for another woman because there going to grow up and make there own decisions but i really like him and cant stop thinking about him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): Firstly you dont say how old you are yourself and secondly he is out of bounds. He is a married man with kids and you need to respect that. You are dating his nephew if your not compatable with him then thats up to you to decide but to break up a family thats another thing. If you do persue this man and he and you do become an item it will mean taking care of his kids on a weekend feeding them washing them making sure that they get the best possible relationship with thier dad it wont always be fun under the sheets and when he has to pay csa will you want to stump up for a quick fling either way its your choice but the reality is hard go find yourself some one you can be happy with or you will deal a whole lotta trouble your way for just a fling
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