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writes: im wondering how a person can trust a man when been cheated on so many times by others.i am getting married in a year and i cant stop thinking about how he is just going to hurt me like all the others. so far so good. but i find because of the cheating in other relationships, i find that im holding him back from spending time with his friends more often, and i fear when he is drinking he is going to cross the line. what can i do? and am i worring for nothing? please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, CherryVanilli  +, writes (8 October 2006):
 Well, not all ppl are the same!!
some ppl r assholes & could reall mess up our lives, but then again there r others who r gr8! it's all about making the right choice, so I believe u need to really know ur man b4 marrying him & making sure u know him too well, so that the risk is less & put in ur mind that he's not ur ex or ex-s...
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
You have very low self esteem at the moment and who can blame you when your trust has been badly damaged more than once. You need to speak to your partner and tell him how much you love him and tell him your insecurities. If you let him know how you feel he will give you reassurance.I cant say that doing that will make everything ok but it might lead you on the right path to trusting again.
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