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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: My first love broke up with me the other day and it's been hurting me real bad and nobody seems to understand that I have such a sensitive heart and that it affects me more than the average person but she did it because we had a couple fights recently but after the last one way had we talked it out and she told me that she was afraid of getting her heart broken again and I told her that she wud never have to worry about that because I was so much in love with her and how important to me she was so we afraid that if we ever had another argument or a problem with something the other person that we wud try our absolute best to talk about it right then and there and get everything back to normal well the very same night we were talking on the phone and I had another call so I ask her to hang on I tell the person calling I was on the phone and switch back over and she had hung up so I texted her and asked her why she hung up and she says her mom wouldn't let us talk anymore and I asked her how she couldn't be mad about this and she says she don't want to date either and just like that it was over my heart broken I'm sitting thee crying my eyes out wondering what just happened and a little while later her friend texts me and says that this girl said she loved me so I didn't know what was going on earlier today she texts me asking if we could talk about what happened and basically it ends up with me asking her togive us another chance the main reason we broke up is because her family didn't like me when they had never met me or even seen me before she didn't answer me and I'm left sitting her hurting so badly inside and I don't know how to deal with it I just can't see finding someone else like her she was so special to me and one of the many things that really gets me is that she had talked about how important I was to her and that she cared about me more than anything but she still broke up with me mainly because her family didn't like me for no reason everywhere I look and everything I do reminds me of her I loved her so much and on top of that I don't deal with things well at all I'm hurting so badly inside and I just can't deal with it the memory of when my friend and her bff first told me this girl liked me the memory of the notes we used to write back and forth when her mom took her phone the memory of my arms wrapped around her it's all unvelievably painful to think about but even though she has put me through all this hell I would take her back in a heartbeat I just can't deal with this much longer I want her back but all I hear from my dad is just to let her go idk what to do and I'm in so much pain will someone please tell me what the best thing for mbto do is and how to do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): Dry your eyes sweetie...You are so young and im not going to go in to some lecture about you being to young to be in love...all i will say is that: this hurt will pass:It wont be the last time your heart will get broken :and you may break girls hearts too.Its unfortunate her family didnt give you a chance..i mean how can they not like you if they have never met you.. This is unfair.I was once seeing this guy.Dale, about 7 years ago now and he was a nice,friendly guy,i liked him but wasnt in love with him. My mum didnt like him (she had met him). So i stopped seeing him...he was crushed and i felt bad but deep down i knew he was the "one" for me and i was young. If this had happened now i probably wouldnt have sided with my mum and carried on seeing him and then left him on my own accord...He would send me texts asking me to take him back etc..On the other hand i have been hurt myself.I thought i was in love with a guy i worked with..we went on a couple of dates and then he started avoiding me..i never found out why he wasnt intertesed. I kept all his texts and kept crying and asking myself why and running through every detail in my head what i did wrong..but guess what..i got over it and now am in a relationship where the guy wants to be with me and im soo happy.Also Dale (the guy who was in love with me)is now getting married to someone else next year and he is happy!Good luck with everything and trust me you will get over this and then when u find the right girl you will foret the hurt caused in the past.x
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