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writes: I'm 18 and i've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 10 months and i have a feelings that he's cheating on me? He still talks 2 a couple of his ex's because he stayed friends with them, and he had a strong relationship with them. He tells me that he doesn't love them anymore that he wants to marry me and have beautiful children with me, but when he talks to his ex's he walks away from me like i'm invisible.Is it that he doesn't want me to feel uncomfortable or is hiding something from me? He has told me that he loves me more than words can explain and that he wont ever leave me because he feels that he can't and wont find anything better. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Talk to him and ask him to explain his actions to you. Ask him outright why he does this and tell him that you are not happy with the way he goes on around his exs. In time, you need him to push them into the background, so that you are not invisible and they are. but you need to let him know how you feel, because blokes cannot read minds, that is for sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): most likely he is not. he just doesn't want you to feel uncomfortable. however you should just discuss it with him & see what he has to say. good luck.
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