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writes:I have a crush on my best friend's little sister. I really don't know what to do about it...I've always been able to take confidence in the fact that if I was approached by a girl that I had moral reservations about, I could always turn it down. I'm not sure that I could from her. Not to mention, I would never want to risk my friendship with her brother, but I really don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2007): Have you spoken to your friend about how you feel, if not have a chat and see what your mate thinks about it all as somtimes this can cause problems between friends (not that im saying its going to) once you've done that and got it out the way you'll have more of an idea how your friend will feel about this situation.
if everything works out for the good then why not ask her out what have you got to lose you'll have a great friend and a great girlfriend... good luck and take care of you xx
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reader, RMC31 +, writes (4 June 2007):
RMC31 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHis sister is only a year and a half younger than me. The problem is more the fact that I couldn't date her; it would be more of a casual, physical thing. And the signals she's been giving me (maybe I'm misinterpreting) kind of indicates that what she wants too.
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 How old is his sister?
Your friend is going to have a problem with it - its his little sister after all and he will be looking out for her.
If you have a relationship with her, then you both need to talk to your friend and explain how you feel.
make sure your mate realises that you arent going to mess her about and that you genuinely care for her.
good luck
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (4 June 2007):
 As DV1 did say as long as its legal you are fine. But i do see your friend having a problem with it. It is his little sister, he proberly wont be happy with this at all. Also if ou did date and broke it off you would lose a friend. I believe you shouldnt do anything no matter how much it hurts.
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reader, kenny +, writes (3 June 2007):
 As DV1 says as long as its legal i don't see that your friend should have problem with it. But be careful that its not all too close to home, if you got with her then it diden't work out for some reason it could jeopodise your friendship with your best friend.
Good luck
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reader, DV1 +, writes (3 June 2007):
 As long as she's legal, your friend should have no problem with it... If you guys get married, you'll get to be related to your friend!!
DV1
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