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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have always despised cheaters, I never could really understand how a person could stay in a relationship yet be with another.And then, I found myself in a situation where I could see myself cheating.I am not in an official relationship with this man, but we have been seeing each other on/off for over a year now. I loved him before our first break up, I think I still love him as we test out the waters. But I don't get enough physical love from him. We go on dates and all I get is a goodnight kiss that I initiate. He says he doesn't want to push himself on me because I might have doubts - does that mean he is thoughtful or just not that interested?In any case, I've been seeing someone else at the same time and I've been kissing him instead. What my first guy fails to do, I get from this second man.What in the world am I going to do? I don't know if I'm attracted to this second person because I just need to feel loved, if it's because subconsciously I know my guy isn't right for me...From a guy's perspective, am I cheating?From a girl's perspective, how do I get myself out of this?!HELP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Well if your guy isnt giving you what you whant then why are you still with him. If you are looking else were then you are obviously not satisfied. Dont hurt him, let him go & find someone who does satisfy you. Remember why you hated cheaters in the first place. Is that really the type ov person you whant to become. They say, 'once a cheater' 'always a cheater' your better than that im sure. Goodluck in life & love!
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