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writes: i am inlove with my exlover but i am married what can i do i had sex with him and i still love him i dont know what to do
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reader, bonym  +, writes (6 June 2006):
 Well I have to totally agree with Shania in all that she has said, why did your ex become an ex? Its obvious you never fell outlove with him and there was still some chemistry so why on earth did you marry another bloke? I cant really add any more to the sound advice you have been given but please think very carefully. Do you really want to throw away your marriage? I wish you all the best. xXx
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reader, shania +, writes (6 June 2006):
 Oh dear...this is a tricky one.Why did he become your ex in the 1st place?...Im asking this because when couples break up,its so easy to remember the good bits and not the nasty times you had together. I take it your not happy with your husband otherwise you wouldn't of jumped into bed with your ex? How does your ex feel about you?...is he using you for sex? If you dont want your husband then i think you will have to choose between the two of them,its not fair on your husband and if there are children involved then you are playing a dangerous game.Does your lover want you back?....If your just a fling to him then it would be silly to throw your marriage away.I think the only person who can help you is yourself.Another thing is,you might be confusing love with lust....you might be in a rut with your hubby and your ex just looks like an escape route...but is he? My impression here is....you feel more for your ex then he does about you....please think carefully here....stop all contact with your lover so that your judgement is not clouded and see if you can salvage your marriage. Good luck.
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