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writes: Hey guys,I am an attractive young mum who has a two year old baby. My problem is that after breast feeding my little one for 13 months i have lost the firmness in my breasts. I was 36B, now i am 36D....which i am very conscious about. Also, i feel that my breasts are not attractive anymore by touch...even though they are not absolutely saggy. Do all breast feeding mum's feels this way and also do men find that as a problem as breasts do play an important role in sexual relationship. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): You know what, I can totally relate to you on this one.
I have gone from a 38 D to a 36 B in the last year. I had beautiful breasts that were full and perky. Now they are smaller and not so perky. After breast feeding four children, my nipples are not up to par to my minds mental picture of what is beatiful. It doesn't matter the size.
All the drastic changes to my breast have left me questioning my attractiveness to my long term boyfriend.
I finally told him and he reassured me that he loves them and thinks they are perfection. How he looks at me, how he loves me, how he touchs me tells me that he speaks the truth.
A man in love sees only what is beautiful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): In many women, pregnancy and breast-feeding do may significant and unpredictable effects on the size and shape of your breasts. While breasts are sexualized in our world today, one has to remember the real purpose of of women's breasts. They were given to us, to feed our babies. I myself, breastfed 3 children. I experienced changes as well but my husband never found the changes a problem. In the sexual sense, he still loved my breasts irregardless. I think with him it was the person, behind the 'breasts', that he truely cherished and loved. I wouldn't worry about it dear. I commend you for giving your child the best, healthiest start to her life. Just love your breasts for what they are. In the eyes of your husband..the beauty he sees in you, as his wife and mother to his child should be most important. And if he isn't complaining, he likely loves you for much more than the firmness and shape of your breasts, dear. Don't worry about it.
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