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writes: Has anyone got any advice for a heart broken girl?i had a one night stand with a work colleague about 5 weeks ago. It came out of the blue and now i am absolutely smitten with him. He is looking for another job and will be leaving the company as soon as he does. I have tried to tell him how i feel with no joy. He is blanking me now, but has admitted that he likes me. I am absolutely heart broken becuse this guy is absolutely perfect and it breaks my heart every time he ignores me. I know i have been stupid and a bit gullible but i cant help the way i feel. Help!
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reader, onceuponatime +, writes (10 October 2006):
onceuponatime is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your all your good advice.
I know its right to ignore him, and move on. Im pretty angry at myself now for getting into this situation! And letting him make me feel this way. Guess thats the first step to recovery. I am still hurting, but i know if he was right for me i would not be. So ive just got to mend my broken heart and get on with it.Easier said than done though! The sooner he moves on the better then i will not have to see him every day and i can find some one who wants me for me
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (9 October 2006):
 a one night stand is exactly what it says it is. unfortunatly for us girls sex brings us closer to someone and makes our feelings for them stronger and for men its just sex. theres not much you can do you cant change the way he feels. i know it hurts butsex for a man doesnt have to involve feeling just make sure that if you do get his interest again you dont jump straight in bed with him! learn from it and dont do it again a one night stand will never end in a serious relationship.
are you sure your heartbroken over him or do you just want to be with someone do you actually know him well as a person or do you just want to be close to someone again?
try and move on from him you cant make a man have feelings out of nowhere. x
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
I too am also involved with a guy from work and i am also confused about whats going on. I would love thier to be more but i cant see it happening basically as he has a gf!
This is a tricky situation as unlike me youve told him how you feel with no joy. Maybe try backing off a bit and see if it has good effects. I dont think telling him again will do any good it would probably just annoy him.
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