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I get excited too quickly

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Question - (12 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey. I'm a girl and I'm 18. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year, and we've had sex. I cum really early, and it's even while we're making out. I hate it. He can go on forever, but I cum within 10 minutes. Advice?

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (12 July 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntmost women can continue after an orgasm even experience multiple ones in quick succession.

There is no problem with a woman coming early and often. Sex is NOT a duration excersise. If you can continue with the sex, then where is the harm?

If sex becomes impossible, then there are descensitizing creams although I don't know if they work on women. You could also tone down the foreplay. He has probably learned to bite down when the orgasm comes to delay it. Guys often feel this is needed because they can't easily get an erection again.

You could try to delay it as well. But frankly, coming in 10 minutes of sex doesn't seem that fast to me. Even porn scenes don't last that long.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

enjoy it!!!!!!!!!!!

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