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writes:hi, im sorry if this gets a bit long.so im very very confussed about my sexuality. everyday i go to college and i cant help my self i look at all the bums of the boys. i imagine them naked, and in sexual situations. but with girls i dont do any of this.i sometimes try to masterbate while thinking of girls but i dont really feel anything like when i start to think about boys, its much better over boys, i can think about all sorts of things we could do.but if i do think about woman i can think about people a bit older than me, but with boys, the thought of a 30 year old man is just horrible. any help would be great. thx Reply to this Question
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reader, GayIrishGuy  +, writes (28 July 2011):
Hon, you might be gaywhat age are you, do you mind me asking?and don't worry about the 30 year old guy thing-trust me i was just like you even 7 months ago! i wanted to marry a girlbut then i had this dream where i had this sexless relationship with another man and i loved itif you are gay then when u meet someone you will love themit could just be a pahse maybe ur not gayit can be so confusingi am only 16 but i last 2 yrd were hell trying to figure out what i wasbut trust me when u finally figure it out and (if u are gay) "come out of the closet" it is the most amazing feelingyou feel so free and hapybut its important to be careful there is always bastards who hate on you and they dont even know you personallylove conquers all- just remember that :)good luck xxx
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (24 April 2010):
Gay - my arse! You are merely in the process of identifying sexuality and where you are in the big plan of things? Just let life take its course, it is not about bums,tits, cocks or fannys, it is really about the emotions that the partner friend / s provoke?I assume that you are a virgin and have had little direct contact with girls. Pluck up the courage and ask one of them to be a closer friend and see what they have to offer. Of one thing I know for sure they are much maturere thah we boys ever are? Good luck and chill
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 Sounds like you could be gay. You're young, and youth is all about exploration. Find a guy who's got the same feelings you do and see where it might go. Just don't date a girl and play around with guys on the side. Be who you know you are.
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