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writes: As a male member of a dominant male society, i have got used to this behavior where a guy enters in to a relationship with a girl, tries to get as much out of her as possible and once that phase is over, just starts abusing her. Is this normal for most relationships? I find it hard to take things slow, mainly due to social and cultural pressure. Everyone wants things as fast as possible in their life. Please advice.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): THATS NOT NORMAL. Ya know people always say that they hate being controlled but thats exactly whats happening to you your letting society controll you, you are making decisions based on what others believe and what others do, your a follower and thats very immature considering the fact that your between the ages of 26-29. Woman are humans too incase you havent noticed pal, and just like anyone else we dont like being used. Would you like it if someone used you, if someone abused you? I think not, its time to grow up and be a real man, rethink your actions.
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (22 May 2007):
Is that what you want ? To just abuse your girlfriend ? YOU dont have to do that, you can treat your girlfriend with respect, and then she will respect you ALOT more than if you abuse her. Message me if you want as im curious about how you really feel about this matter.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 Abuse in any relationship is not normal. I don't know any society that would condone the abuse of women for any reason. It's not normal to get used to something like that. Women are something to be respected and loved, not abused. I don't think that a woman would be safe with you. You need to spare others of that until you've found out what it means to love someone.
DV1
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