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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey there,I've really liked one of my close friends for a while now. I asked her out but her reply was she didn't want to ruin our friendship. This didn't make me go off her one bit. she is unaware of me still likeing herRecently another friend of ours has got quite close to her. She has been asked on many occasions whether she likes him and the reply has always been no, where as he has been honest about it.Today he asked her out and she said yes and they are now dating. I feel soo upset about this because I still love her very much and have never felt this way about someone before. At the same time I feel mad that she's lied to me about it. I understand she didn't want to hurt my feelings, but if she was straight with me I would have found it easier to move on. I feel now it's too late to do anything about it but is it? And what can I do? Thank you this is really getting to me.
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reader, Firstloves14  +, writes (17 September 2008):
Be open and up front with her. Ask her why she wasn't honest with you and how that made you feel when you found out she said yes to your friend . You felt betrayed and it's ok to feel that way. Tell her that her happiness is important to you and that you'll always be there for her. That's respectful of the other guys feelings yet leaves the door open for you . Getting that off your chest will be a step toward maturity . Good luck!
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