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*avideiannelli
writes:Hey im 17 years old :D and im italian i really really need advice on me and my gf! we are going out about 2years and we broke up about 15times out off them! i cant help but to always go back to her! i love her so much i really do but sometimes we get in huge fights and she says she doesnt care anymore she says stuff like your going to lose me if you keep it up.. what im doing is im being over pretective!!!! i no its a bad thing but i would only ask something like are you drinkin and when are you going home? the reason im kinda over pretective is because my ex gf cheaten on me!ok so me and my gf now are having probkems she is telling mt she doesnt care about anythin or us i dont no what to do i dont no what im doing wrong.. i mean i wrote her love poems i pick her up from skool i give her money when she needs it i brong her out i but her stuff!! what am i doing wrong? do you think she loves me ? we would have a great time one day then a little fight and she would completely forget about are food times! im confused im having thoughts on should i leave her or what ? whats best for me and her? but i dont think i can leave her i feel so empty without her!! what should i do ? anyone have any advice anything at all ? please answer please
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010): Has she ever given you a reason not to trust her?
When she goes out ask her to call you when she gets home or when she's done hanging out. Don't hound her like she's done something wrong ask her how things went. Just because your ex's cheated on you doesn't mean she will, she is a different girl and if she hasn't done anything to break your trust doesn't need to be treated like she is untrustworthy. And if you're bothered while she is out find something to get your mind off till you talk to her.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 15 breakups in 2 years is a lot. I guess when a relationship is first started guys and girls become infactuated with each other, this means the other person is perfect in your eyes, what ever we do and say does not matter.
We want to spend all of our time with the other person and it can become overwhelming after a while.
As the relationship progresses that feeling should subside, you still love the other person but in a compassionate way, you trust them 100% and give them their own space as they give your your own space.
I suspect either; your not paying enough attention to her or 2; your paying too much attention to her.
You have to get a good balance, dont act like a jerk and above all listen to what she is telling you.
Its possible she is just mad at you right now and she may contact you again.
But seriously the ammount of break ups you have had is not normal, I suggest to look deep at the cause of each break up and try and improve either on this or your next relationship.
Good luck dude.
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reader, brittanyboo  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 alright seriously i will be honest with you , dont ever let your past relationships follow you to your future relationship that is basically not giving this relationship a chance right from the get go, second she dosnet diserve you she seems quite immature and not respectfull i was in a relationship like that for 3 years and it made me feel like i was worth nothing trust me you lived without her once you can do it again! hope this helped take care and best of luck.
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