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female
age
41-50,
*admommy1976
writes:I am having another problem, our first problem ballooned to a nightmare. My first blog was that I am 7 months pregnant and found nude pix of his ex and him on his computer, he did not want to get rid of them and days later he said he did, and hated me. When I hit my 3rd trimester, we celebrated by me crying like I never had before and him angry at me. I went away for the weekend to see a friend, and though he was being nice when I left he was being distant and I felt something was up, but hoped the weekend would put things back as they should. When I returned there was love and kisses, but my instincts were alert. Candles had been placed around the house, he had not really tried to contact me at all, which is not him, and some of his stories were not consistant. I woke up and smelt perfume in bed, and I don't wear perfume.. however, that may have been paranoia and/or a passing street fragrance. I believe he would not actually cheat on me, but I looked on his phone, as I needed to know what was up. I saw he had reached out to this waitress that he always hits on.. that has been an issue for 2 years. He was trying to make plans with her and sent her a X. I almost vomited. He was opening himself up to someone else. I confronted him, he first tried to hide it and then cole notes to what he said 'so what, I need women in my life and your attitude is not attractive and I am not happy. ' So what am I to say? I just moved in with him, having a baby in 3 months and this pregnancy has been so hard, not because of physical but him, his anger and his selfish sneaky behavior. He owns nothing, but is currently extremely cold to me and constantly putting me down. I feel like whenever my back is turned he is doing something, and he is ready to explode on me. I dont feel safe, I dont know what to do, I just want things to be okay, I am not sleeping at night and I fear the welfare of this child. As he pushes his anger on me, I feel our child kicking inside, it just breaks my heart. If he cant be here for me now, what happens when I really need him?
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