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writes: hi there is this girl i konow we r realy good mates but i feel a lot more for her but i dunno what to do plz help me Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (26 August 2006):
 How well do you know her, are you good friends, is it worth risking a friendship? If she is single and so are you, just ask her out for something to eat, see a movie. Good luck. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2006): i'm in a pretty similar situation with one of my best friends, as well. and i'm pretty sure she likes me too, but it's so hard to tell. when it comes to close friends and developing feelings, it's a bit tricky. it's like, do you just throw yourself out there and tell her everything you feel, and hope she feels the same? or do you just not saying anything and remain friends because you don't want to hurt the friendship? it's such a tough question to answer. for me, i'm just holding out a little longer, to see how it plays out and to gather enough potential evidence to make sure that she likes me back. i don't want to put myself out on a limb if i don't think she feels it back. so if i were you, i would just hold out a little longer, and try to read the signs she's giving out. if she's giving out signs that she's interested, you'll know. she'll flirt, make comments about the two of you, and just in general, she won't treat you just like 'one of her pals.' take notice how she behaves with all of her other friends, and see if she treats you similarly, or if she's different with you. if she's different, that's a great sign. i always ask myself 'would one of my normal friends say that to me?' and if not, there's usually something more. but if she treats you like the rest of her friends, and doesn't flirt or throw out any hints at all that she's interested, i wouldn't tell her. it probably means she just sees you as a friend. good luck!
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (26 August 2006):
 Basically you have a descision to make; either you are going to tell her how you feel or you are not. If you tell her then you risk altering the friendship and putting strain on that. T hings really will never be the same again. If you dont then you have to reconcile yourself to the fact shes going to most likely be with somebody else.
This is one of those ones where you cant really be told what to do but have to decide for yourself on the basis of what you feel you can live with. Hope that helps. Take care.
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reader, Chelsea +, writes (26 August 2006):
 You could talk to her and tell her how you feel. At least then she knows, and who knows, with a bit of luck she might even feel the sameGood luck x
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reader, SoNzZz +, writes (26 August 2006):
 Well...You should tell her how you feel...get it all out. And if she feels the same way then go for fit!! and if she dont just tell her if you can still be freinds. REMEMBER...friends is beter than anything else
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