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female
age
41-50,
*elina
writes: Hiya!Well,I feel I am a full grown woman,very confortable with sex,masturbation,and getting naked.I like my body,and feel very nice when naked.I have this boyfriend for almost a year,and sex is well...explosive.Just love to do it all the time.I want to surprise him.Want to make him a streap tease.A really sexy and hot one,but I get nervous even just to think about it.Why?How can I win this?I feel so mature and so confortable having sex,talking dirty and telling him all the crazy kinki stuff I feel like,but,when it comes to making him a streap tease,I just get scared.Does this happen to every woman,or is it just me?This is not a problem that haunts me,but I would really like to get over with this...Got some advice? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (23 November 2008):
you know what helps, a glass of wine. it will relax you and let you do all the sexy moves. maybe you are nervous because for the whole of the strip all the attention is on you. just relax and have fun with it, after all if it is your boyfriend then he will love whatever you do and you will feel comfortable around him. maybe make him part of your performance, such as using silk scarfs to wrap around him and bring him closer to you or give him a lap dance in your little performance. just have fun with it and dont take it too seriously.
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