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writes: why is she doing this? i have a really close female friend who has a boyfriend. i always walk her home about twice a week. i talk to her for an hour durin that time. she's been really upset about her boyfriend. they have had a arguement. she was cryin, so i comfort her. i phoned her to check if she was ok. her boyfriend asked the next day why she cant be with him instead of me. but the problem is his a college during that time so it's impossible for him to see her. she even told him. and he asked her who are you closer to. you have to choose either me or him. and she said to him - me! her relationship was already bad but why did she say me? i did try and be there everytime she was upset but she is makin is worser by tellin him i understand her problems more than he does! she loves him to bits but she just keeps tellin him that she talks and meets me. is she tryin to make him jealous? she doesn't fancy me i know. although i do but i'm not ruining there relationship. i am happily waiting! what can i do in this situation? if they both argue about me?
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (8 October 2006):
 I think she might be ready to break up with him soon. She might be thinking about you, trust me, I'm a girl so I know. She's probably thought about you already and I think she probably have some feelings for you. I have the feelings she might be dating you soon. You seem like a nice guy so she would be foolish if she doesn't date you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni understand but i dont believe she is really using me. i mean we are still friends! why do all the bloody girls have to do this to me? i'm such a reject! last girl was a great friend. the same day i was gonna ask her out she told me she fancies a boy. i never told her. i was so hurt. now this friend is even more caring. we talk nearly everyday for at least 15minutes! but why she using me than? i dont think she is? even if it's true i dont wanna believe it. i suck! i might as well stop lookin out for girls who might be a friend and fall in love. but nope i'm just a reject!
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (7 October 2006):
 I feel she is trying to make her boyfriend see that they do not share the emotional connection with him. She needs to be able to talk to somebody and needs this from her boyfriend. I feel it is as if she is trying to get him to act more like you and be there as a friend, not just as a partner. It seems like she is using you to get what she wants from him.
Sorry if it sounds harsh, but that is MY opinion.
You seem like a really nice guy, but I can only forsee YOU being the one who gets hurt. I think you are better off away from the whole situation.
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