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I feel like a complete loser!

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Question - (10 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2009)
A male India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

im so low in energy, shy in crowds, dumb, nothing ever goes rite with me...i jus hardly talk to any1...or wen i do, they just think i trash man ...im not of their level..get it....rite so i still do try my best to move on u know...been to many social gatherings, event, done sum crazy stuff too.....talked to an absolute strangers, had sum good times with sum friends too....but they occupy just a very small minute ratio of fun....other day i just lie home...try myself in developing myself ...alas ...that urge dies, just got no support from any1....im a total loser...extrmeley moody, im 21 and dont even have a girlfriend..... man just i could get sum support from sum1 close...i did totally be grateful......had sum really bad days...

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (11 September 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntHMM Get a hobby.. I dont like going out unless its for business. In other words I dont do anythng im not going get paid for exept maybe going to church. I ll go to a club if I own it or am the bouncer or the Dj other then that I have about a million albums and an amazing sound system in the crib, as far as bars the same thing I have no reason to go I have a well stocked bar in the crib.

WHAT do you want out of life?

WHat makes you happy?

WHAT are you satisfied with?

answer those qestions

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):

Don't worry man, a lot of us have been there. But it's always up to ourselves to makes us change. I myself had no one to lend a hand or to bring my up with words, so I really had to hit rock bottom before I knew what was going on.

Being busy is one path. A job helps. The job might suck but you may meet some interesting people. You may meet someone with goals and someone who inspires you. Ofc I realized working for people sucks so I went back to school and I want to start my own business.

Another path is trying something different and using your time to better yourself as a person rather than entertain others. Why not try something simple like reading? Find some books, lock yourself up and read. I promise you'll feel better. There's also lots of things you can search about on the internet.

When you become better person to love yourself, then the right girls will come.

If life still sucks, get a job, save your money and travel to some other country. There's nothing quite like that.

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