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anonymous
writes:i am looking for advice preferably from other women. i have been with my partner 1 1/2 years,he has two kids from a previous relationship. we love each other dearly. my problem is, when i think of us having kids (he's happy to have another)i cant get away from the fact its all been done before,twice. i feel there is nothing we could have that he hasnt had already. he has a child of each sex so it wouldnt even be different. i have never had kids. what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): YOU are different from what he already had and it's you he loves and a child between you would be a different person from any other child. Don't underestimate yourself, just enjoy the happiness you have together. And one being an experienced parent is bound to help when you have children together.
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reader, helpjayne  +, writes (20 November 2008):
 he loves you he's never had a child with you before has he. you love him and he loves you thats what matters a child isn't just something people have as a new experience it's an expression of love and this is guna be your baby your guna be raising so it will be different anyway. he'l be overjoyed because its your baby aswell.x
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