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I feel distant from him and we're back to being shy with each other!

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Question - (14 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Malaysia age 26-29, *reegirl247 writes:

Hi,I'm 15 this year and I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year 8 months.Our relationship was pretty good until this year.We were shy around each other at first but after that we opened up and really enjoyed being with each other.We strayed off a bit for a few times but came back strong and learned not to take each other for granted.

This year we couldn't accompany each other in school everyday like how we did last time because the discipline teachers and prefects were stricter this year,so we only texted and talked to each other for 5 minutes after school.Now I feel distant from him and we're back to being shy.I don't really enjoy talking to him anymore because he's shy and closes himself up but i know it's because we haven't talked properly in 3 months.We didn't try talking on the phone because I didn't want to.I was scared we'd have nothing to say because i know he wont say much and it'd be awkward.

This has been going on for 2 months and I don't know what to do.I don't feel like he's in my life and vice versa.Sometimes I feel like exploring the world outside too and dating other guys when i study overseas next time but I'm afraid that I'll regret because the grass isn't always greener on the other side and he's a pretty good guy except being a bit of an introvert when he's with me.I don't know if i should just give up or try harder to save this relationship.We'd have to wait until next year before he can be with me everyday but I can't do this for one whole year,it's just not right.What should I do?

Thank you for your advice =)

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