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writes:Me and my bf have been going out for almost eight months now. We usually see each other once a week or more, since he lives in another city (but in the same state.) He just got a car from his mom that she was using for a while, and then he was using it for a bit to come see me, etc. But now he has spent about five days or more trying to fix it. His cell phone is also behaving in a messed up way. We haven't seen each other in a week and a day. I know that is not long, but I am scared that we are going to drift. I've talked to him about fear of him leaving and he says that I have nothing to worry about, but I just don't know. How long do you think I should wait? I don't have a licence or a car, because I can't afford car insurance. I am a full time student who lives in the apartments across from campus. Usually I am not this clingy. I just have insecurities, since before in the past I have met guys who seemed really into me, when in reality, they weren't and they "faded away" from me. How long do you think I should wait for him to come visit me? A bus wouldn't take me as far as he is, and a taxi would probably cost me a lot of money. I don't know what's going on......
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's coming over tomorrow!!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's just weird, because I don't think that I've ever been in a relationship that was this long before (it's a good thing, don't get me wrong, I'm just saying it almost seems as if I am going into uncharted waters....lol)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks....I'll wait another week. He just called. :-)
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