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writes:Please help me??Has anyone got any advice for me?I have reached a point in my life, thru previous relationships and so called friends who just used me for their own gain that i am finding it hard to trust anyone i meet to be a genuine person and believe what they say.I have met a lovely lady who i care for very much and i am trying so hard to make this relationship work but i am really struggling to trust her! i have no real reason to doubt what she says but because of what has gone before me i cant help it.I fear that my distrust will show thru and ruin this relationship, and i don't want that to happen.what can i do to start trusting again??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): you have got to move on from the past its the only way you can move forward with your life you can,t let relationships and being cheated on in the past ruin your future relationship you may be missing your chance of happiness and not all women are the same
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 Hi,
What can you do? Stop living the past.. What happened in the past is far gone, think as a life experience and try to become better person. Don't let selfish people destroy your life and happiness..
I'll tell you, when someone betrays your trust is hard to trust again, but the truth is, its all in your mind...
Nobody or nothing is stopping you now, only your mind..
Life is too short to waste feeling insecure.. Be glad that you finally saw the real colors and that these people are no longer in your life.
Now, this new lady friend is what you should concentrate. You said she's lovely, so enjoy getting to know her and spending time with her. Its really unfair to blame this lovely lady friend for what has happened to you in the past. She deserves your trust, love and friendship
Be strong, think positive and enjoy life.. Ur still very young... Don't miss in the oppurtunities ahead...
Good luck! Hope this helps
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